In His Own Words
About Him
It takes a while to know me properly. One of the reasons I don't have many friends, scratch many and replace with one!
The reason is I am a difficult person to get to know. It can take a year or more to fully get to know me, I keep myself private because it keeps me safe.
I’m one of those “once you get to know me I make a great friend” types.
But the question is should you spend your precious time getting to know me?
I don't believe in casual or friends with benefits type of relationships. I'm more of an eternal lover.
About His Ideal Match
Simple lady kind, loyal, honest, smart, rational, understanding, patient, sweet, modest, caring, trustworthy, moral, considerate, empathetic, a great listener, positive... and I could go on more, but I'll leave it there haha.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Midrand (Centurion), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Sepedi; Tswana; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Government | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Botswana; Eswatini; South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
23 - 33 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 165cm (5' 5.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tswana; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for drinks |
TV Shows: |
Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Boxing; Motorsport; Soccer |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Ultra-conservative |
Feelings about using SA Reunited BlackSingles: |
Nervous |
