In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a quintessential Gemini!
I can be as much an introvert as I am an extrovert. I'm a genuine people's person who enjoys good company equally as much as I enjoy my own. I'm comfortable as a movie/series binge-watching homebody as much as I am being out there socialising - despite choosing to be a average mingler at social events.
I'm one with nature and immensely enjoy long road trips - a prolific road tripper, preferably with good company and music. I'm an ardent movie and music collector - yes, still old school like that while equally comfy with streaming 😊. I'm a fervent talk radio fan, reader and writer - which must be pretty obvious, right, LOL! 🤦♂️. I derive my greatest joy from being daddyhood. Yes, I advisedly said daddyhood which markedly differs from fatherhood.
I'm a progressive liberal intellectual and sapiosexual who's turned on by stimulating conversations but also quite playful. Life is already too serious, right? I'm free-spirited and famous among those who know me for enjoying a good laugh. I'm quick-witted and fun to be around - with a great sense of humour; thus a sucker for comedy.
I'm busy shedding off those extra pounds, which I must hasten to emphasise that they don't stand in the way of anything ...and I do mean anything! I'm a highly energetic hard worker. Well, blame those extra pounds on my ability to navigate the kitchen which I'm totally at home in.
About His Ideal Match
A genuine person, a WYSIWYG type (to borrow from IT speak, meaning 'What You See Is What You Get!'😉) - an open book without being (too) 'boring'. She must be able to hold down a smart conversation and have the ability to talk playful trash without taking herself too seriously.
It'd be great meeting someone who's done experimenting with life; a self-made, focused, driven and ambitious lady. It'd be a super bonus if she's a family-oriented homemaker (of course, not in a primitive slavey kind of way) who shares my authentic love for children. No pretences on that front please because my daughters are the centre of my universe. No need to compete for love, love is the one thing that remains whole no matter how many times it's divided, right.
Hopefully, she shares my staunch belief in a partner being a good friend with whom you can be comfortable to lock the world outside the door. Loyalty is paramount!
I wanna be the wind beneath her wings; someone we will soar together and build with. She must be her own person and respect that we are independent individuals despite our union.
Imbibing the wisdom nectars should ideally be more for unwinding and letting the hair down rather than falling slave to them.
Oh, a quick parting shot: no shorthand writing please!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Roodepoort), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Swati | |
Other Languages: |
Sesotho; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Orthodox | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Botswana; Eswatini; Lesotho; Mozambique; South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Muslim | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A barfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Cooking; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Basketball; Boxing; Bungee jumping |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Mansion with loads of servants |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using SA Reunited BlackSingles: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
