In His Own Words
About Him
**Why should you get to know me?** Why not? I’m here because I believe life is best enjoyed with a mix of humor, good vibes, and meaningful connections.
I’m a big believer in open communication, and I’ll admit, I can overshare at times—so you’ll never have to guess what I’m thinking. I’m more of a homebody but enjoy the occasional outing… as long as it’s not too late. Let's be real—21:00 is prime curfew time for the 40+ crowd!
As an introvert, my social battery doesn’t last forever, but it recharges with laughs, goofiness, and quality time with my closest people. Music is my escape, especially old-school and neo-soul tunes. I can’t dance (blame it on my two left feet), but I keep hope alive!
I’m looking for someone who complements me—a partner who doesn’t need me but wants me and values the space we create to grow together.
A safe space where our version of the relationship can be rooted
Let’s deep dive and compare our core values, lifestyle expectation and relationship vison if they align then you are my kind of person.
If you’re someone who appreciates a mix of depth and lighthearted fun, we might just get along.
A bit of a tech geek and sometimes socially awkward (confirmed by my circle), I embrace my quirks. If any of this resonates with you, let’s start with late-night chats about everything and nothing, or dive into some fun conversation cards to get to know each other better.
About His Ideal Match
**Each of us is an experience; the question is, are you memorable or forgettable? **
I’m here to get to know *you*—the real, unfiltered, authentic version. I want to understand your character, your core values, and the unique essence that makes the brand that is you . Let’s peel back those layers together, one at a time, discovering that soul that seeks me just as I seek her.
Over time, I’ve learned to appreciate the beauty of patience—no rush, no pressure. I believe in giving experiences time, their true nature has the chance to reveal itself. I may not be specific about qualities or traits because, ultimately, I’m interested in how I am when I’m around you. It’s about the value you bring or add to my life and whether we’ll grow as individuals or side by side.
If this resonates with you, I hope it sparks a curiosity to connect.
Oh one last thing, if you have tattoos or piercings , we probably not going to gel well.
I lean more to people who are natural and confident and appreciate who they are.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Sepedi; Sesotho; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Mpumalanga; Gauteng; North-West, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 39 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Black; Greying; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African; Coloured; Indian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
