In Her Own Words
About Her
Here's why you should get to know me:
I'm a compassionate and curious individual with a contagious enthusiasm for life. Friends describe me as warm, empathetic, and genuinely interested in others. I'm passionate about learning, personal growth, and meaningful connections.
Likes:
- Exploring diverse cultures and perspectives
- Engaging conversations and debates
- Creative expression (writing, art, music)
- Nature walks and outdoor adventures
- Cooking and trying new cuisines
Dislikes:
- Injustice and inequality
- Dishonesty and manipulation
- Wasted potential and untapped talents
- Reality TV and excessive screen time
Hobbies:
- Reading
- Journaling and poetry
- Photography and visual storytelling
- Yoga and mindfulness practices
- Language learning (Spanish, French, Mandarin)
Fun and relaxation:
- Traveling to new destinations
- Attending concerts and festivals
- Board game nights with friends
- Meditation and deep breathing exercises
- Laughing with loved ones
Outlook on life:
I believe life is a precious gift, full of opportunities for growth, connection, and joy. I strive to:
- Cultivate empathy and understanding
- Foster inclusive and supportive communities
- Embrace challenges as learning experiences
- Find beauty in everyday moments
- Inspire others to pursue their passions
Getting to know me means:
- Engaging in thought-provoking conversations
- Sharing laughter and meaningful moments
- Exploring new ideas and perspectives
- Discovering common interests and passions
- Building a genuine, supportive connection
Let's connect and inspire each other!
About Her Ideal Match
Qualities:
1. Emotional intelligence and empathy
2. Authenticity, honesty, and integrity
3. Positive attitude, sense of humor, and resilience
4. Intellectual curiosity and love for learning
5. Shared values and life goals
6. Effective communication and active listening
7. Kindness, compassion, and understanding
8. Independence and interdependence
Relationship dynamics:
1. Mutual respect and trust
2. Open communication and conflict resolution
3. Emotional support and encouragement
4. Shared responsibilities and teamwork
5. Independence and personal space
6. Intellectual stimulation and growth
7. Laughter and playfulness
8. Emotional intimacy and connection
Shared activities:
1. Traveling and exploring new cultures
2. Hiking, outdoor adventures, and nature walks
3. Cooking, wine tasting, and culinary experiences
4. Reading, writing, and intellectual discussions
5. Music, art, and creative expression
6. Fitness, wellness, and self-care
7. Volunteering and community service
8. Game nights, board games, and social events
Deal breakers:
1. Dishonesty, manipulation, or abuse
2. Lack of respect, empathy, or communication
3. Incompatible values or life goals
4. Substance abuse or addiction
5. Disrespect or disregard for boundaries
6. Inability to manage conflicts or emotions
7. Lack of accountability or responsibility
8. Unwillingness to grow or learn
Ultimately:
A successful match is built on mutual respect, trust, and communication. It's essential to find someone who shares your values, supports your growth, and loves you for who you are.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Mbombela (Nelspruit) (Steiltes), Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
18 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Zulu | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sesotho; Swahili; Swati; Tsonga; Venda; Xhosa | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Student | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
South Africa; Mexico | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 35 | ||
Star Sign: |
Virgo | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Grey; White; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | ||
Home Language: |
English; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Arabic; Swati; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa | ||
Religion: |
Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Partnered; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student | ||
Occupation: |
Student | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Childish |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Moody; Optimistic; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Devotion; Honesty; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Soap operas |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Soccer; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at Work: |
I'm a student |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using SA Reunited BlackSingles: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
