In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a genuine, loving person who values honesty, kindness and deep connections. I like caring, loving, authentic, and spiritually grounded men. I believe in living with intention and building meaningful, stable relationships. Family is everything to me, and I cherish spending quality time with loved ones, travelling, exploring nature, or simply sharing moments of joy and happiness.
I also make time for self-care to stay mentally and physically balanced. I appreciate a partner who is self-motivated, positive, and passionate about growth. I believe we will connect deeply if you value authenticity and share my love for family and spirituality.
I am not drawn to dishonesty or anyone who looks down on others. I value respect, kindness, and uplifting those around me. We'll likely be on the same wavelength if you approach life with love, openness, and a positive attitude.
I’m a genuine, loving person who values honesty, kindness, and deep connections. If you're caring, authentic, and spiritually grounded, we would be a great match. I believe in living with intention and building meaningful, stable relationships. Family is everything to me, and I cherish spending quality time with loved ones—whether it's travelling, exploring nature, or simply sharing moments of joy.
I also make time for self-care to stay mentally and physically balanced. I appreciate a partner who is self-motivated, positive, and passionate about growth. If you value authenticity and share my love for family and spirituality, I believe we could connect on a deep level.
I’m not interested in dishonesty or anyone who looks down on others. I value respect, kindness, and uplifting those around me. We'll likely be on the same wavelength if you approach life with love, openness, and a positive attitude.
Life for me, is about balance—family, personal growth, and meaningful relationships. If you're looking for a genuine, loving connection, I would love to get to know you.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for a partner who can make me laugh. I value family, Xhosa traditions, and a strong connection to spirituality. I would love to connect with someone who shares those values. It’s important to me that my partner believes in a higher power.
For our relationship to work, open communication, mutual respect, and understanding of each other’s needs are essential. I’m looking for someone self-motivated, positive and committed to personal growth. I want a partner who is also my confidant, my voice of reason, and my best friend—someone with whom I can share life’s journey and support each other through challenges.
Dishonesty and lack of respect are deal-breakers for me. I value kindness, authenticity, and mutual support, and I need a partner who shares those qualities and is ready to build something meaningful together.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
East London (Gonubie), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
159cm (5' 2.6") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Fiction; Romance; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; News; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Reading; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Rugby; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using SA Reunited BlackSingles: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
