In Her Own Words
About Her
Why should you get to know me?
Because I’m a woman who values authenticity, respect, laughter, and meaningful connection. I’m independent and ambitious, but I also appreciate the simple things—good conversation, shared experiences, adventure, and having someone who genuinely enjoys being around me.
I know who I am and what I bring to a relationship. I’m caring, supportive, curious, and always open to learning and growing. I believe the best relationships are built on honesty, communication, friendship, mutual respect, and two people choosing each other every day.
If you’re looking for someone genuine, confident, warm-hearted, and ready to build something meaningful, maybe we should get to know each other. ❤️
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for a man who is genuinely single(whether divorced, seperated or widowed), emotionally mature, kind, and intentional about finding a meaningful relationship. Someone who knows what he wants, communicates openly, and understands that consistency matters.
I’m attracted to a man who is confident in himself, hardworking, financially responsible, caring, affectionate, and respectful. Someone who can make me laugh, enjoys adventure, supports my ambitions, and is comfortable with a woman who is independent and knows her worth.
Most importantly, I want a partner who values honesty, loyalty, friendship, and mutual respect. I’m not looking for perfection—just a good man with a good heart, who is ready to build something real together. ❤️
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Phalaborwa (Namakgale), Limpopo, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Sepedi | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Giyani (Limpopo, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Leo; Sagittarius | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 185cm (6' 0.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Self-employed; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
Fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Investing; Shopping; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Bowling; Bungee jumping; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Running; Snooker; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using SA Reunited BlackSingles: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
